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Traumatized Minds

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Childhood Trauma, Body Dysmorphic Disorder, and Plastic Surgery Addiction

By Kristance Harlow | April 28, 2022 |
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With painkillers like OxyContin, the overdose reversal drug naloxone, and detox/maintenance medications like Suboxone, the pharmaceutical industry is making a profit off people addicted to opioid at every stage. Opioids are highly addictive and sometimes, especially in combination with other drugs, deadly.

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How to Be Less of a Jerk – Part 2 – Admit Racism

By Kristance Harlow | June 9, 2020 |
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Stop getting offended when someone calls you white, part of white supremacy, a recipient of white privilege, or even *gasp* racist. Instead, try this: hush up, listen and learn.

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Be Less of a Jerk 101: Racism Crash Course

By Kristance Harlow | June 8, 2020 |
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Stop getting offended when someone calls you white, part of white supremacy, a recipient of white privilege, or even *gasp* racist. Instead, try this: hush up, listen and learn.

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Are the 12 Steps Safe for Trauma Survivors?

By Kristance Harlow | August 15, 2019 |
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When the 4th and 5th steps are done without support for the symptoms of PTSD, they have the potential to retraumatize.

Memories, Parts of Self, and Cohesive Identities

By Kristance Harlow | November 14, 2018 |
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Recovering repressed memories is possible. Trauma is subjectively experienced. Flashbacks are real. Depression is physical.

What is Dissociative Identity Disorder?

By Kristance Harlow | January 16, 2018 |
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Dissociative identity disorder (DID), formerly called multiple personality disorder, is an extremely misunderstood condition related to serious trauma usually in childhood. It’s a controversial diagnosis, in part because of the widespread ignorance and because it frequently occurs alongside other disorders.

How to Listen Someone’s Trauma Story

By Kristance Harlow | January 12, 2018 |
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You don’t need to understand a person or their post traumatic symptoms to listen to their trauma story. Having empathy and patience does not mean you must experience what they experience. We can never know exactly what another person has lived through and how they felt in each moment.

Dissociating Is Being Stuck In My Head and Not My Body

By Kristance Harlow | January 5, 2018 |
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I can’t say anything. He wants me to tell him if I’m ok and I am trapped in my head, but not in my body. I can’t move my eyes to look into his.

Suicidal and Not Giving Up

By Kristance Harlow | December 27, 2017 |
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TW: Suicidal ideation. Raw, honest, painfully real journal journey to a dark time of suicidal thoughts. Get help at suicidepreventionlifeline.org call 1-800-273-8255

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Drinking as Self-Harm

By Kristance Harlow | December 26, 2017 |
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When I can only see the world through foggy glasses, the urge to destroy myself by drinking again becomes an enticing option. Drinking can be a method of self-harm and was for me.

If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, call your local emergency number. The numbers listed here are the commonly used numbers for the stated region, the numbers can vary greatly depending on where you live. If you don't know your country's equivalent to 911, this wiki page and The Lifeline Foundation have comprehensive listings.

Americas

911

The Americas

Europe

112

Europe

Africa

112 & 999

Africa

Asia

112, 999, 110

Asia

Oceania

112, 911, 999, 111, & 000

Oceania

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