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Victim Blaming

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Alcohol and Rape Prosecutions: Consent, Intoxication, and Memory

By Kristance Harlow | April 29, 2022 |
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Victim blaming is a defense mechanism for bystanders to feel safe by falsely imagining that it “could be avoided if…” or “that can’t be the real story.” Content Warning: discussions of sexual assault In allegations of sexual assault, if there are no physical injuries and a lack of DNA evidence, the court of public opinion…

The Truth About Sexual Assault

By Kristance Harlow | October 28, 2018 |
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Breaking down some of the most devastating and important statistics about sexual violence.

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Why Do People Return to Domestic Abusers?

By Kristance Harlow | July 25, 2017 |
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There are many reasons people return to domestic abusers. One of which is the psychological phenomena of re-enactments and re-experiencing.

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Retracting Allegations of Abuse is Not Proof – Trauma and Memories

By Kristance Harlow | June 20, 2017 |
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Retracting an abuse allegation is not proof that the abused is lying or that the alleged abuser is innocent. Rape is amongst the most underreported crimes. Victims face enormous obstacles in the aftermath of rape. Not the least of which is deciding whether or not to contact the police. The justice system is designed to be a hostile…

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Student debt made the domestic violence against me worse

By Kristance Harlow | December 14, 2016 |
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The first time my ex-boyfriend got violent, we had been together for less than a year. He shoved me and then acted like he didn’t mean it. Moments later he did it again.

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112

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112 & 999

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